You're Not Afraid of Commitment, You Just Want To Bang More People

I have a friend who has found the perfect guy that loves her so much and actually cares about what she wants and her feelings. I know, it's shocking to know that there is actually a guy out there like that but this guy is young and pretty successful, he always picks up the tab for the entire table! Isn't he just the perfect guy? He wants to be official but my friend claims to be afraid of commitment because she just got out of a 3 year relationship with her fiance. She always goes on and on about him, but I know she wants to be with him but at the same time I know that she also wants to get down and dirty with more people before she gets tied down again. Although it's not like she can't do the nasty with him, she just wants to bump and grind with no strings attached. It's just one of those things where you always want what you can't have. She always wanted to find true love with the perfect guy but now that she has that she wants to fool around. Freaking chicks, they're just drama.

Wandering hearts...

Love Is Never Mutual

Have you ever noticed that love is hardly ever mutual? There is always someone that loves the other more even if you are in a totally committed relationship, married, have a circus of kids, grandkids, and what not. Someone will always love the other more. We tend to protect ourselves and put up a barrier around our heart because if we let go then we become vulnerable and basically go nuts and question every little thing. Do you love? Do you love me more? How about now? Still love me? Why don't you love me?! Wait, you love me? I guess I love you too...No, I don't think this automatically means infidelity. I believe it is because we do not want to lose our identity because people tend to lose themselves when they go all into the I love you more stage. They start to change, become someone new, start a new life, thus become someone that no one knows of. People tend to take this chance and abandon their previous life along with their friends and families but what are you left when your relationship goes south? Alone.

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