Real Love Can Wait

How do you know when someone's love is genuine?  You really can't but you can make a decent guess.  Some people think that for a love to be real, you have to be spontaneous and crazy and just rush into things, but that's not love, that's just hormones.  The reason why it's hormones is because after everything is said and done, you will realize that you're screwed because your mind was clouded and lost in the moment that you both didn't think things through.  Sure, the excitement will last for awhile but since everything was so rushed, you have built a life together so fast but what's next?  You're young but you can't do anything because now you're married with kids, have debt up the ying yang, a mortgage, and a low paying job.  You may think you're happy now but years down the line, you will see that you wasted your life by trying to start it so early.  If you really love someone then you would do everything to give them the world, but you can't give them much if you have no real foundation to build on.  I have noticed a trend in high school sweet hearts, who have dated for about a decade or more.  The ones who did not go further in life by going to college or a technical school, they are the ones who either have low paying jobs if they have a job at all or have kids that they cannot handle or both and are usually married right after high school.  Whereas the ones who did go to college tend to finish school and find a high paid job and work a few years before even thinking about planning the wedding and having kids because before they make the next leap, they would have the time and money to live for themselves and enjoy life before moving onto the next chapter in life.  I just think having kids when you're young isn't a measure of love but more of a means to lock someone down so they cannot escape you but that's not love, that's just pathetic and plain crazy.

Horn dog!

"The harder you work, the harder it is to surrender."
Vince Lombardi