So probably a good number of people out there have been cheated on or was the cheater and also was silly enough to forgive and forget and accept the douchebag back. But should you accept the apology and take back that bastard? It really depends. You have to look at things at different angles and not just from your point to your significant other and vice versa.
Family: If the douchebag cheated on you once then you should only accept the bastard back if the guilty one is good to not only friends but family. If the loser is horrible to their own family then say see ya later alligator because they are likely to cheat again since they can't show any love or courtesy to their family then how do you expect them to show you any as well so kick that sucker to the curb. But if they are good to their family then they are more likely to realize their mistake and horribly regrets doing it and will never ever do it again, then the candidate is acceptable to take back.
Repeat Offender: If the douchebag still doesn't get it and continues to cheat on you multiple times and even worse refuses to acknowledge or admit cheating then toss their ass out because even if they say they love you and marry you and start a family with you, they will always stray because that's just how they roll. They have deceived you many times already so what makes you think they changed? People don't change, they just hide things better.
Unreliable: If the douchebag is never around or isn't reliable and always comes up with an excuse for not showing up to your scheduled appointment then well it's obvious what's that bastard is doing so think twice about taking that sucker back because it's likely they will even be late for your wedding because they were busy banging someone in the closet. But you won't leave empty handed because remember you will get an interesting story of why they were late.
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