Nature vs Nurture

Everyone hopes their kids to be the next big thing, but fail to draw the line as to where to stop pushing.  In earlier discussion, there was great debate on Amy Chua's tiger mother parental teaching.  Sure, most Asians excel in academics, arts and sports because their parents push them to be the best in everything and in most cases they do surpass their peers.  But when should a parent stop trying to push greatness out of their child?  Sometimes, although as a parent it is not something that we would want to admit, your child is just a complete failure and cannot become great or even decent due to their low learning curve and lack of motor skills.  With the popularity of snowboarding, every parent wants their kid to be the next Shaun White and are pushing their kids to start early and to hit it hard without regard to the child's safety.  It's great that parents are starting their kids young but only if the child wants to because you cannot force someone to like something that they do not have a passion for.  We have parents taking their kids out as young as 16 months, but if the child enjoys it then kudos to the child and parent for finding something in common to do together.  However, there are the parents that ruin the fun for the child by pushing them and yelling at them for not being good enough like the mother who yelled at her young daughter who was scared to go down the steep mogul trail.  The mother didn't care for her safety but angrily told her to just go down.  There's a difference between pushing someone with no talent to be great versus pushing someone with talent, while it's another thing to be talented but not have the passion to follow through.  Eitherway, you cannot force your passion onto someone else because your child will not enjoy it anymore, if they did at all.  Roman, like many of other kids that I know, his parents sent him to school as early as 2 year old at a cost of 2k a month plus karate, dance, and singing classes because he enjoys it.  If the child enjoys it then encourage and support your child even if they suck horribly because not everyone can be great whether they are born with it or trained.

4 year old Bailey is quite talented

You Can't Handle the Truth

I always found it funny how people tend to take things personally which upsets them and return their rebuttal with nonsense that doesn't even make sense or help their case.  Why do they get so flustered?  Because they can't handle the truth.  People don't like to admit their faults and when someone points it out then they get offended but should people get offended at their faults?  People should embrace it because it is only human to have flaws.  I'm not critical, I'm a realist and I see things how they are without the sugar coat.  I can't talk to someone who can't handle the truth of human nature.  There is nobody that is perfect, purely good, purely evil or purely anything.  Everyone is a bit of everything so you can never say that so and so is not that kind of person but in reality they can be or is because you can never truly know someone since you don't even know yourself.

Kids will always be sluts behind closed doors.

"To pretend, I actually do the thing: I have therefore only pretended to pretend."
Jacques Derrida