Connection Can Be Masked

Yes, the connection between a couple is important but how often is this connection masked by lust?  Very often unfortunately, but to even have a connection to someone to begin with you must spend enough quality time together to know if this connection is real or if the person you thought was your soul mate is just a bickering insecure fool.  Often people find someone who they think they have a great connection with but really they are blinded by their so called love, lust, chemistry, or whatever you want to call it but after awhile of getting to know this person, there was nothing there to begin with which is why so many people date a little while then go their separate ways.  It is the case of boy spots girl, boy feels great connection with girl, boy dates girl, boy spots another girl with a great connection, boy leaves first girl, and the cycle repeats itself.  But there are times when one find that they have a great connection with a friend as well but do not see the person as someone to date because you just don't see that person as your other half although this person knows you and gets you like no other.  It takes time to make a connection but not all connection are built equal. 

That's so punny!

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